Does Fairy tales have impact on the choice of your partner
I have written over it before and I was forced to write again as it came across again in my life due to some reasons .I think it does!!!!Yeah it does affect .Every girl wants to marry a knight in shining armor. Sometimes they fall for the dorky guys though, but to them, he is their knight in shining armor ;).I dont know why Girls always think like that. To some extra crazy minds, fairy tales can portray an overly utopian and totally unrealistic idea of what life will be like when we meet the "Right one." Then, when the dream person doesn't measure up to the fantasy, a person thinks wtf? It all in the mind I guess. People tend to always look for what they see in dreams ..what they want in dreams and fairies and always due to their (may be ) greed/ego/fascination or( may be ) they are too stubborn ..people tend to relate it to what they get. It probably starts with it.
Well My new blog talks about this , whats your POV...
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Hmmm. It depends.
Yes, every girl searches for a PRINCE CHARMING. It is also true that whoever they fall in love with becomes their Knight in Shining Armour. Because they believe that there is ONE PERSON in this world who TRULY LOVES them more than anything else in this world.
Its not Greed or Edo ot Fascination. It is pure HOPE. Girls like to be shown affection and told that they are loved. See, Girls are very SOFT. Sensitive Beings one may say. We don't actually Compare our DREAMS and REALITY. But we like to know if our DREAMS become our REALITY
I dont understand why every girl how poor she is always tries to dream and in fact does dream of prince charming , arey bhai why dont u dream of a decent guy , who earns ebnough to keep you happy , after all he should be loving you always not only be a prince !!!
Look Guys are tired of being that one with the shining armour , we can also be good I.T professionals , you know what I mean (fun intended),
I dont know , but i have a serious problem with that !! I mean come on !!!
There's nothing wrong in liking guys in shining armour. Don't we like women in similar way (not with armour unless we're talking in the kinky type shining armour)?? Its perfectly normal. Reality turns out differently but if you're in a stable relationship you're lucky- man or woman. Especially in this day of age.
Younger girls are like that, but when they get older and slightly more experienced in the real world, they prefer men who have some stability in life to say the least. Guys also somewhat the same when they're younger, but they prefer women who aren't annoying and stuff as they get older. I know lot of guys who ended up being single or divorced because some demand a lot: usually its related to money and things that you can buy in money. Its sad. Most of the people I know who are slightly elder than me don't wish to be married because they fear that if one person is marrying for money, usually it turns out as an ugly affair with 1 huge scar in one's life that cannot be repaired. You only stay young once.
May be you are right , perceptions , prespectives and attitude plays a major role !!!
Perceptions talk ......
tales makes us believe.....
but its always on the heart to decide.......:)