All righty then!
1. If someone comments on my blog, I will reply. In some cases, this turns into a conversation, which is fantastic.
2. If I go visit a blog, I will
(a) actually read a post or two
(b) look for an About page and read that
(c) if a post makes senseto me or otherwise causes a reaction, I will leave a meaningful comment, letting them know I came by, I actually read and was moved enough to offer a commnet.
(d) if I can't really find a post that moved me in any way, I will leave a comment on the About page. NOT "Nice blog!", but something meaningful and appropriate.
(e) if the blog is patherically poor, so poor that I can leave nothing but "What a piece of crap!" comment. I will, instead, slink quietly away.
Over the course of the last nearly 2 years, I have 2-3 regular visitors and commenters and I value them a lot. I cannot understand people who read but can't be bothered to comment because to me, the reason I read is is to be moved, touched in some way. I'm not looking for spammy 'what a great site. I havent really bothered to read it, but I figure if I leave a vague comment you'll come over and visit my blog' type of comment.
I want a conversation.