1. The look and feel: Sober and the background theme does not really convey your live/write in the moment message from the banner.
2. The widgets: Perfectly selected, the placement could be more organized. But, since you have very less of them, I think you should be ok.
3. The content: I see that there is much content in there. So, you have been writing for a while and upload your content almost regularly. This is good but, since the template was not really great I did not feel like spending much time on the blog. Since, your are on blogger finding templates should not be a problem. Try searching with "blogger templates" on google and you will get tons of websites.
I hope you find the feedback useful. This is my personal opinion and others might have a different opinion and that might be even more helpful. So, hope you get some more constructive feedback.
If you would like to, you can post your thoughts about my blog as well. Here is my post, where I requested feedback: http://www.indiblogger.in/forum/review.php?id=4318