Which is more important marriage or career?

Anjali Sengar
Anjali Sengar
from Gurgaon
9 years ago

Whenever I call my married friends especially female, they always have long list of problems of married life. One common complain of each female is sacrifice of career coz of marriage. They say we were better before marriage, there is no benefit of getting married. 

            So my point is which is more important marriage or career?

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knitha.urs
knitha.urs
from Bangalore
9 years ago

marriage is a honey trap.............

Anjali Sengar
from Gurgaon
9 years ago

Hey Knitha, why u called marriage a honey trap?

HR
from Bangalore
9 years ago

Ok, put it in this way - marriage is a money trap (for some) Tongue out and marriage is a ego trap (for some).

Ranjith
Ranjith
from hyderabad
9 years ago
Marriage :s
HR
from Bangalore
9 years ago

I understand your situation R/Kittu Cool

Gaurab
Gaurab
from New Delhi
9 years ago

Do whatever you want to do Tongue out

Then blog about it...would love to read your experience Tongue out Cool

The best answer is "To each his/her own"

Saket Kalikar
Saket Kalikar
from Hyderabad
9 years ago

There is no one right answer to this. Smile All depends what is your priority in life.  You need to trade-off between family and career.

In my opinion, at least one (and it need not be the woman always) has to have child-care as his/her first priority so that the other can concentrate more on earning. (And both the tasts are equally challenging). But  a balance can certainly be achieved. (Like one of the partners working part-time and taking care of home). But you need to be contented with the balance. You can’t have best of both worlds always. You can have your tea with more milk and less tea (milky tea), or less milk and more tea (semi-black tea), but you can’t have a tea which has more milk and more tea. Smile You must know what is your taste before ordering the tea.

And just curious to know….....why your friend who repent getting married, haven’t yet filed for divorceyet????  Innocent

Believe me marriage has its own sets of gifts… may be your friends have just taken them for granted or they are’t telling you….Wink

Anjali Sengar
from Gurgaon
9 years ago

Hey some of them have taken divorce within 1 yr of marriage Tongue out.. He he he.. I think now a days couples have ego problem..

Gaurab
from New Delhi
9 years ago

Divorce within a year...which fast-track court they visited Tongue out

Shantinath Chaudhary
from Hyderabad
9 years ago

LOL really, divorce within 1 yr!! Smile Actually I think there is legal provision of 6 months' "cooling off" period, before the legal divorce could be allowed by court. So a divorce could take at least 6-7 months to get finalized. That means the couple decided about divorce, within 5-6 months of the marriage!! That is really quick decision. May be they were married against their wishes, and had other plans since the beginning itself!! Smile

Anjali Sengar
Anjali Sengar
from Gurgaon
9 years ago

He he he.. Nice one cmvt..

HR
HR
from Bangalore
9 years ago

So, don't get married ever...continue with your career...Tongue out

Both, as they supplement each other, even Ratan Tata says the same..

cmvt
from Vishakapatnam
9 years ago

Do we really want to take advice from Ratan Tata who never got married :)

Hunky @ NexGenBikes.com
from Kolkata
9 years ago

Either you learn by watching others make mistake or you can learn from your own mistake Tongue out


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