Which is more important marriage or career?
Whenever I call my married friends especially female, they always have long list of problems of married life. One common complain of each female is sacrifice of career coz of marriage. They say we were better before marriage, there is no benefit of getting married.
So my point is which is more important marriage or career?
marriage is a honey trap.............
Hey Knitha, why u called marriage a honey trap?
Ok, put it in this way - marriage is a money trap (for some) and marriage is a ego trap (for some).
Do whatever you want to do
Then blog about it...would love to read your experience
The best answer is "To each his/her own"
There is no one right answer to this. All depends what is your priority in life. You need to trade-off between family and career.
In my opinion, at least one (and it need not be the woman always) has to have child-care as his/her first priority so that the other can concentrate more on earning. (And both the tasts are equally challenging). But a balance can certainly be achieved. (Like one of the partners working part-time and taking care of home). But you need to be contented with the balance. You can’t have best of both worlds always. You can have your tea with more milk and less tea (milky tea), or less milk and more tea (semi-black tea), but you can’t have a tea which has more milk and more tea. You must know what is your taste before ordering the tea.
And just curious to know….....why your friend who repent getting married, haven’t yet filed for divorceyet????
Believe me marriage has its own sets of gifts… may be your friends have just taken them for granted or they are’t telling you….
Hey some of them have taken divorce within 1 yr of marriage .. He he he.. I think now a days couples have ego problem..
LOL really, divorce within 1 yr!! Actually I think there is legal provision of 6 months' "cooling off" period, before the legal divorce could be allowed by court. So a divorce could take at least 6-7 months to get finalized. That means the couple decided about divorce, within 5-6 months of the marriage!! That is really quick decision. May be they were married against their wishes, and had other plans since the beginning itself!!
He he he.. Nice one cmvt..
Both, as they supplement each other, even Ratan Tata says the same..
Do we really want to take advice from Ratan Tata who never got married :)
Either you learn by watching others make mistake or you can learn from your own mistake
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